Good question Romke!
I had a similar problem when trying to turn off the OEM DRLs.
There is a fuse map in the download section but it appears to be for a Kombi. Apparently according to someone on the DRL post you can ask your dealer to input your VIN into a system and they can print out the fuse map for your vehicle.
I'm certain from the discussions on the DRL fuses that the SE and Beach have different maps, significantly different. Which is I guess to be expected given they are based on different vehicles, although I'm surprised at the apparent level of difference.
I'm still waiting for my dealer to get the printout for my vehicle - which reminds me to prod him again! :x
I think there was a member from France who had had more luck in getting the fuse map for their vehicle.