So am update to this thread. Following the views expressed here and elsewhere on the forum I opted for Michelin Cross Climates SUV in the larger of the two Cali sizes 235x55x17. They are 103 load rated. They have B, B, 69db respectively for their fuel, wet grip and noise ratings.
So hopefully without any 'confirmation bias' I'm happy to report I'm pleased with my choice.
I made the swap directly from my winter set which were Dunlop sp winter sport 3d in the narrower 215x60x17s. They were 104/102 load rated with E, C and 70 for their efficiency, wet and noise scores.
For comparison, when Cali's come equipped with the narrower summer tyre, they seem to come with Continental van contact 200 with a 109/107 rating. These rate B, A and 72db for fuel, wet and noise.
My primary hope in opting for the wider 235s was to benefit from a better ride, thanks to their 10psi lower running pressures. I hoped to be not too penalised in fuel consumption due to the higher contact area and the lower pressures.
Well, the ride has improved considerably - I'd say at the top of my expectations. (and my sliding hatch now stays closed!). More minor road imperfections are floated over and major ones now don't feel as if the suspension is being ripped off. I should say that now I'm back in a T5 it's noticeable how the ride and isolation has improved with the 5.1 and the 6.
So I'm putting all of that improvement down to the lower tyre pressures, as in my case the load rating of my before and afters is the same. If you are coming from the Continental Van Contacts with 109/107 stiffer wall, you may notice an even better improvement.
I'm not the type of driver who drifts my van around corners so have no observation as to whether I have more grip from the change.
So to the fuel consumption penalty:
@Amarillo had reported a big increase in consumption that seemed to coincide with his change from the narrower tyre (on 16s) to the 235 width on 17s. It wouldn't be surprising given the extra width and the fact the 235s 'look flat' even when properly inflated, so a lot of energy must be consumed by the constant reshaping of the tyre.
I'm happy to report though that I haven't been able to detect a difference in consumption BUT remember I swapped from an E fuel rated winter tyre to a B rated one. That alone will have won me something to offset the expected increase in consumption. If you are coming from the narrow, high pressure B rated Continental tyre to the wide, low pressure 235 Cross Climate, then I expect you would notice the difference in consumption.
Finally those narrow Continentals have a noise rating of 72db vs the 69 of the wider cross climates so you would expect less road noise.
(Note, this is a comparison of the SUV cross climate tyre. A few members here have fitted the Agilis version of the Cross Climates but that is a very different, more commercial tyre with high load ratings and a very different tread pattern. They are 109 load rated and B, A, 73db for fuel, wet grip and noise.)