@AlisonF , you have been a top poster on here, and now I think a moderator (or you have been one in the past). You did not reach this position by making useless posts. You have positively contributed to this forum with your inputs. If you post something rude (which you will not), trust me, no one will say anything to you, instead people will be asking you if all is well. IMHO, this forum is like a large extended family.
On the issues in the recent past that I can remember:
- Someone comes on the forum and in the 3rd post says that all people on here are "dick wagging"
- another person in his 17th post, says that all people on here are armchair experts.
... what should they expect ... us to molly coddle them? Sorry, don't think that is right and will happen. They need to learn how to behave on forums and learn to understand themselves when the people who have driven a few hundred thousand miles more than then and some who have grown up with VW vans from their childhood are guiding them on the right track.
Also, then, there may be old contributors who are usually on this forum after a few pints ... and so for them ... all is forgiven forever