I find all forums a strange and sometimes hostile place, where people say things to others they would never say to their face,and as it is written word it is difficult to convey how the message was intended to be put across.
I am currently Caliless as we sold ours at the end of last year and we are just waiting for the summer sales rush to pass before ordering for a 2017 delivery. So I just browse the forum pick up all the T6 ordering tips, and as I have no experience of these issues keep quite.
There does seem to be a trend that people HAVE to comment on every post irrespective of having any experience of an issue or are qualified to do so, and then when people disagree or have a strong opinion opposite to theirs get very annoyed.
Addiction as mentioned above seems to be an very apt word.
So if you are looking for friendship, entertainment or get something off your chest then don't use a forum, instead go out in your Cali , meet some people , talk to them , laugh , drink and just chill.
Remember the Cali is a way of life , The forum on occasion just helps us live it.