@CALI FATE - apologies - I agree a good banter is great and if you think I'm trying to stop that then somehow I've got it wrong - I love a good banter - so long as it is respectful and in the right context.
What I'm more concerned about is people unfamiliar with the forum posting an honest question - many times without having checked out threads as they are new - to be received by the 'conflict /banter' within the forum - and often they don't return. Like the chap y'day who's roof wouldn't shut - he really didn't need to hear our internal ego's on what was better (Beach / SE / god knows what). He wanted HELP !!!
Today I have then received a PM from a member of this thread which is one directional. I can't even reply to explain my opinion. That is not professional (in my opinion).