That's the only bit of your post above that I take issue with, and I disagree with it absolutely.
Perhaps for an individual putting themselves forward as something special - a leader, politician, business guru, role model, whatever - then respect does have to be earned to maintain credibility in that sought position.
The idea of earned respect for some collective group is dangerous. I can do virtually nothing to influence whether another cyclist jumps a red light or another driver speeds or tailgates. In what way does their poor behaviour reduce my right to a safe journey or give anybody the excuse to treat me a little less safely?