I agree. One way or another, moving into EV it will not give a financial advantage. People insist on arguing EVs are cheap to run. But they will not be cheaper once once we all drive EVs.
I am nevertheless under no illusion of being able to convince anyone of this fact, because EVs have become like religion, some people love EVs and won't listen to any other reason, whether it is on the financial side of it, the questionable sourcing of lithium, the unexplained impact of disposing of spent batteries, the CO2 and environmental impact from production of the vehicle to the end of its useful life including that of the batteries, the clean or less clean source of electricity production now and in the future, the current inexistent user practical benefit, especially if we expand the discussion to medium an heavy trucks that cover hundreds of miles daily and whose environmental impact is enormous together to the millions who live in flats and can't charge at home.
I don't dislike EVs at all, I love Teslas, i try to use my Swytch bike for all the journeys I can instead of driving, but rationally I cannot yet prefer EVs to ICE vehicles until all the above will be successfully solved and answered.