That's what P is for on the DSG. ...
This raises an interesting point in my mind. In a "traditional" automatic, I would never shift into "P" in this situation (the example was queuing in stationary traffic) - besides the 'palaver', you could inadvertently (albeit briefly) turn on your reversing lights when shifting into "P" (and again when shifting back to "D"). This could cause possible confusion/concern to following drivers. I don't think the Highway Code is advocating this - the "P" is not strictly a parking
brake; as you say, it locks the transmission.
I have always, regardless of manual or automatic transmission, used the traditional "parking brake" (handbrake in common parlance but these days hand/foot/button/mind control operated) in such situations, and then once it's clear that any following drivers are aware that I'm stationary, released the "footbrake".
Back to the point: I'm not sure that this technique works well in the DSG. In the Cali (T5.1 at least), the handbrake is quite a reach and, in my experience, if you use it with car in "D" the car will always try to creep forwards (just like a standard auto. could). I'm not sure but I suspect that the DSG clutch(es) are only fully disengaged when the footbrake is applied and vehicle is stationary; using the handbrake alone, maybe the DSG is continually slipping the clutch? Not such a problem in a standard auto. but probably not good for DSG clutch-wear ...
[Edit] However, for a quick getaway (e.g. busy junction), maybe you can sometimes take advantage of this behaviour? If you're stopped in "D" on the handbrake alone, as soon as you release it, you would go. There might be no apparent "lag" as can be sometimes experienced when you release the footbrake.
In the Cali. DSG I have therefore evolved my technique somewhat: for short stops, of course, I just use the footbrake. Once it becomes apparent that a short stop is becoming a long stop (subjective)
and there are stationary vehicles behind me, I apply the handbrake, shift to "N" (doesn't require going through "R") and then release the footbrake.
Each to their own of course; I'm not advocating my technique; just throwing it out there FYI.