We have 5 children, between 30 and 40. All with good jobs, their own houses and all married. They all earn far more than I did at their ages and have seen far more of the world than I had at their ages as I was still working a 1 in 2 On-Call Rota at their age.
We have given them a good education seen them through university and now we are retired we spend our time travelling and visiting them. So, no, I wouldn’t lend the California to any one of them because that would favour one over the other and besides we are using it. They understand that certain things are non-negotiable, My California, My Tool Kit and My Record Collection. They’ll get them in time and until then they’ll just have to be patient or get their own.